Tuesday, April 15, 2025

Reading Recap - March 2025

March was busy for us with birthdays for both our sons', their big joint birthday party for grand & godparents, a family wedding, the culmination of my months of work on our school's dinner/auction committee (actually having the dinner/auction), and leaving for a trip.  Just a lot going on and my reading definitely reflected that, not as much time to read as I would have liked.  Trying to soak up a little more calm in April before MAY (although April has already brought another family wedding and Easter soon).  

I'm very active on Goodreads here, somewhat active on Instagram here, and linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy!    

Back After This by Linda Holmes
I have liked all 3 of Linda Holmes' books, including this one.  It's about making podcasts which was fun to get a bit of the behind of the scenes of, even a fake one.  Cecily is asked to do a dating podcast where she's set up on 20 blind dates by this influencer and then give her honest things.  Some things about the whole influencer culture in there too.  It had some real romance, outside of the 20 dates, and was enjoyable to pick-up.  3.25 Stars

Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want by Courtney Carver
I did not find as much to appreciate in here as I did in Courtney Carver's book, The 333 Project but it was still mostly a good read about being gentle on yourself and your expectations for yourself and your life.  Most people could probably do with some stress reducing and appreciated some of what she said while I was reading it but remember none of it a month later. 3 Stars

Lucy Checks In by Dee Ernst
This had been on my TBR for awhile, it mostly didn't get cut because it was under 300 pages (shorter books are less likely to get cut).  A woman moves to France somewhat in disgrace from her NYC hotel job (she didn't do anything wrong but was affiliated with someone who did) and gets a job completely renovating a hotel in a small French town with a motley crew of helpers.  She's older, in her 50s at least, maybe early 60s and even though I am still firmly in my early 40s, it was nice reading about someone older than 30 restarting her life in a way and making a change.  It was enjoyable but not something I rushed to pickup each time. 3.25 Stars

Adrift: The Curious Tale of the Lego Lost at Sea by Tracey Williams
This is a book that I requested that the library purchase which they finally did.  It's mostly about a cargo boat that capsized off the coast of England in the 90s (I think) and among the items on board were many many pieces for Lego sets, largely ocean themed.  They were headed from Europe to the US where they would be put into sets.  These pieces still continue to wash up on the shores of mostly England but also other places.  It's about the tragedy of waste in the ocean but also about the magic people would feel when they found the washed up pieces, how they are still being found (although not as much), the science of which pieces were more likely to be found, the damage they sustained from years or decades of floating, and about ocean litter in general.  It was a fairly quick read but very interesting.  4.25 Stars

We Are the Brennans by Tracey Lange
I specifically picked this to read around St. Patrick's Day, solely because of the clovers on the cover.  Turns out that was good picking because it was about an Irish-American family in the bar business and their lost sheep of sorts daughter who comes back home after a time in LA.  There's some romance but mostly a family story, very much in the vein of Marrying the Ketchups.  I enjoyed it. 3.5 Stars

The Art of Danish Living: How the World's Happiest People Find Joy at Work by Meik Wiking
I am still a bit perplexed by this title because before the subtitle there is no hint about this being about work.  And it seemed like it should be from a series about books, each titled "The Art of Danish Living" and then about different aspects of life.  Or called the "Art of Danish Working".  I don't know, the title doesn't make sense to me.  The book was fine.  I've not worked full time in a dozen years (almost to the day!) and so I'm not really working to change my work up to be more satisfying or more Danish.  But it was still interesting in just a anthropologist way.  3.5 Stars

The Ladies Rewrite the Rules by Suzanne Allain
This is regency set which isn't a time period I am super interested in, I never watched Bridgerton, which seems to be where that interest started for many.  But I was mainly drawn to this because a main character is named Diana AND it was under 300 pages.  The "ladies" in the title are all women who, somehow, have some money which wasn't super common in this time, mainly because they had rich husband who died.  The rules they are rewriting pertain to how they are supposed to behave (such as at a ball if you refuse one man's invitation to dance you'd have to refuse all the following ones, you couldn't say no to just one gentlemen) and more taking matters into their own hands.  It was entertaining enough but also glad it wasn't much longer.  3 Stars

When Doing it All is Undoing You: Meeting God in Your Unmet Expectations by Alyssa Joy Bethke
There were parts of this I could relate to more than others but I've read many books by Alyssa Bethke and always appreciate her take.  Probably a book that would be best read slowly, over a week or two instead of trying to rush through for a library due date.  3.75 Stars

Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do by Eve Rodsky
This is a book I had on my list for quite awhile but was waiting to read until Matt was out of school since there wasn't much household work we could redistribute while he was in school.  So I finally got to it and I certainly had some issues with her plan (she'd talk about how you might be in charge of paying bills but don't worry about making sure there are stamps to mail those bills because that falls to someone else!  As if there were 80+ people in a household to split tasks between instead of just a couple) but I appreciated the overall idea.  I would have liked more about how to evenly split when one parent mostly stays home and one parent works full time other than "figure out something that feels fair to both".  It certainly sparked some discussions with Matt and I certainly felt less alone in some of my feelings after reading it.  But this is probably more applicable to households where both parents work full or nearly full-time. 3.5 Stars

Read with Luke or Sam
Skylark by Patricia MacLachlan

The second book in the Sarah, Plain and Tall series.  I have fond memories of reading these as a kid but didn't remember how short they were until I reread them with the boys (also fond memories of the tv movie which I should try to find).  Both boys have gotten more into these books than I expected and they are so well written, telling about how hard life could be on the plains.  Educational about that time in history but also engaging.  I think I got through the 4th book with Luke, want to finish all 5 with Sam. 4 Stars

The Worried Wombat by Amelia Cobb
We will never finish the Zoe Rescue Zoo books, or at least it feels that way, since we have to buy them since the library won't and they also won't do an interlibrary loan for them.  We've been reading these on and off for a year and a half and Sam still wants to give every single one 5 stars.  We've read around 25 of them at this point.  3.5 Stars

The Door in the Wall by Marguerite de Angeli 
Our 3rd homeschool lit book with Luke (6th grade).  He did not like this one.  I thought we could breeze through it because it's relatively short number of pages BUT there is A LOT of text on each page and the old English way some characters spoke slowed us down.  I think there is definitely some good lessons here and it was a nice introduction to the medieval time period but the language made it harder, as accurate as it might have been. (I apparently read this in homeschool too but I remembered nearly nothing about it).  3.5 Stars

What have YOU been reading lately?

Wednesday, April 9, 2025

Looking Back at March 2025

March was busier than I expected with birthdays for both boys, their big party, our committee work culminating in the dinner auction we had been working on for 6 months, a family wedding, and heading out for spring break.  Every week it felt like I could only handle what I needed to for that week, very little looking ahead happened.  But now, I think?, April is looking a little calmer! We'll see if that holds true. 

Looking back:
1 year ago: Hobbies: Puzzles
2 years ago: Non-Parenting Books That Made Me Rethink Parenting
3 years ago: Simplifying Allowances
4 years ago: The Spring Switch (I still do this, pretty much exactly like I outline here, on March 1st every year)
5 years ago: Corona Quarantine - week #2 (so glad I documented this time!)
6 years ago: Dingle (still one of our favorite places we've ever visited)
7 years ago:
Things That Makes Me Feel Like Me (fresh off getting Sam!)
8 years ago:
Chairs With History
9 years ago: A Major Improvement to our Pantry (Cupboard) - still SO GLAD I painted all of these.
10 years ago:
Covering Books with Fabric
11 years ago: Top Five...places I want to visit (international) - I've since been to...zero of these.  But would still like to someday!
12 years ago: Making room for baby & some other stuff (this is one of my posts that I randomly think about the most, mainly because Luke was already born but we didn't know it yet.)
13 years ago:
Paperwork is In

 

1) Donut at work, there are frequently donuts which helps my mood.
2) Typical homeschool view!
3) Fantastic Sunday morning brunching with my family.
4) I didn't intend for this to be so breakfast food heavy but donut when setting up for our dinner/auction...
5) Which was the SAME DAY as a niece's wedding.  I made it to parts of both but was also exhausted by the end of the day (which was also 11pm...)
6) Making compost cookies!  I usually just make these once a year!
7) Solid cookie spread for the double birthday party.  I'm not a big cake person and this requires pretty much no dishes to serve and eat.
8) A miniature highland cow on a field trip with Sam's class (my Dad drove the bus!).  It was adorable.
9) Putt-Putt arcade for Luke's birthday! 
10) Skee-Ball is the BEST arcade game even though I am not great at it.
11) The start of spring here...
12) But then in Tennessee where it really was spring!  It was wonderful!
13) There is a Diana butterfly in the Sugarland Visitor's Center of the Smoky Mountains NP.  An presumably around the park but we've never seen one.
14) Not a great view, a lot of rain this day.
15) Flowering bush of some sort at the KOA!
16) Wonderful view from our cabin, even without leaves on all the trees.

Books finished: 12
Miles ran: 3.1 and that was over 2 runs...
Currently watching: Nothing!  We've had such busy weekends with weddings and traveling and birthday party that it's been awhile since we've watched something AND a really long time since Matt & I were watching a show or something consistently. 
Most read post this month: Reading Recap - February 2025 and then Kool-Aid Cookies (I have some of these in my cookie jar right now)

April has already had most of spring break and a nephew wedding and we are looking forward to Easter.  Hopefully just spring weather, flowers, and getting caught up on life after a busy March and cold winter!

Saturday, March 15, 2025

Reading Recap - February 2025

I was surprised with how much reading I got in during February, given it's a shorter month.  We got into a bit more a homeschool rhythm which certainly helped.  Also, I read a lot of places that weren't home, as seen here... I've learned I need to squeeze it in where and when I can!

I'm very active on Goodreads here, somewhat active on Instagram here, and linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy!   

The Roaring Days of Zora Lily by Noelle Salazar
Dual time-lines nearly 100 years apart - 1924 and 2023, a clothing archivist finds a mysterious label over another label in a garment which leads her to figure out who this hidden designer was.  Flashback to 1924, during the prohibition where Zora Lily wanted to design clothes but it wasn't an easy job for a woman just to take up.  Her family also needed her to help provide which designing fun clothes didn't quite do.  I rooted for Zora and really enjoyed the time period and setting.  I wouldn't want to have lived then but it was fun to read about! 3.75 Stars

Happy to Help: Adventures of a People Pleaser by Amy Wilson
I rated this 4 stars on Goodreads but barely remember what it's about a month later, other than what I can deduce from the title.  I know there were some essays that I really related to; I've written "happy to help" in more texts and e-mails than I could count.  Overall was rather relatable! 3.5 Stars

Falling in Love at the Movies: Rom-Coms from the Screwball Era to Today by Esther Zuckerman
I purposely picked this to read in February, seemed like the perfect month for it. It was quite enjoyable, reminding me about many movies I have enjoyed as well as many more I think I'd like to see.  Going back in the history of rom-coms a bit, from the silent age and screwball comedies of the 1960s.  I wished it had a list of all the mentioned movies, divided into different categories would be even better but I should have just taken notes while reading it.  3.75 Stars

Tea with Elephants by Robin Jones Gunn
I've read all of Robin Jones Gunn books for adults and she was hugely influential on my teen years.  This was similar to her Sisterchicks series from about 20 years ago, with 2 women traveling on some wonderful adventure together.  This was to Africa and I really wish someone would give me an all expenses paid trip (to anywhere) with 1st class flights...I enjoyed the sisterhood, the travel, all of that.  There was a weird wrinkle of fiction and reality in her with characters from her Christy Miller series (and off shoots) that I wrote A LOT about on Goodreads but I mostly enjoyed this otherwise.  I'll continue to read the series (let's be honest...I'll read almost everything she writes at this point).  3.5 Stars

Grace Grows by Shelle Sumners
This was about my 8th reread of this book and the one I picked to read on Valentine's Day (including at the doctor's office while both my boys had cleanings).  It was quite enjoyable, again, even as I know the story so well. 4.25 Stars

How to Winter: Harness Your Mindset to Thrive on Cold, Dark, or Difficult Days by Kari Leibowitz
I read this about mid-February and that was perfect timing when it was still pretty cold and rather gloomy outside.  That's about when it starts to feel like spring will never come...and then by early March it usually does.  This was a bit scholarly of a read at times but it also really made me think about how to make the best of a bad situation, how so much of it is in your head, and the crazy ways the Scandinavian countries deal with winters ever darker and colder than ours.  3.75 Stars

Heartbreak is the National Anthem: How Taylor Swift Reinvented Pop Music by Rob Sheffield
I would not call myself a Swiftie but I do have quite a bit of Taylor Swift on my phone and I did watch the Eras Tour movie.  It was short, under 200 pages I think, but an enjoyable read.  I didn't know the context for a lot of her earlier songs so that was just interesting to read about, helped some of them make more sense.  3.5 Stars

The Stolen Queen by Fiona Davis
I have really enjoyed Fiona Davis' books taking place in various NYC landmarks, I have always learned something interesting about a building I have usually seen.  This one was mostly about The Met, where I've only sat on the stairs (this was in 2010, Gossip Girl time) but would like to visit someday.  Mostly about the Egyptian collection, set in the 1970s AND flashing back to the 1930s, when the world was still fascinated with King Tut.  It was really interesting and engaging.  One of the strangest things was that I saw this story the day after I finished the book, new developments on the tomb of the Pharaoh that served as the real life inspiration for a fictional one in the book, who I had just read about in the author's note at the end.  That gave the news some added relevance for me!  But also enjoyed the book before that.  4 Stars

Change of Heart by Falon Ballard
I have not seen any Hallmark movies (we do not have that channel/streamer) but I know enough about them to know that this was very much a take on what if you fell into an alternate world where that Hallmark movie world was real, like seasons only lasted a week or something and everyone was always in town square which was decorated perfectly for the season.  Actually made me think a lot about Hart of Dixie too.  But this woman ended up in a weird world and she needs to figure out how to get back to her "real world" but also seems to be some sort of quest to do.  Romance but not heavy romance, more on finding herself and all that.  A little strange but a strange sort of charming? 3.25 Stars

Better Together: Strength Your Family, Simplify Your Homeschool, and Savor the Subjects That Matter Most by Pam Barnhill
I picked this book up from the small homeschool section (found by dewey decimal numbers) at our library branch, after starting homeschooling in January.  I didn't really know what it was about other than homeschool but was pleasantly surprised by it.  It's all based around doing "morning time" nearly first thing in the homeschool day and packing that part of the day with things most meaningful that you want your kids to get, besides learning math facts and such.  That is not a practice we have picked up but I still found the book very empowering in a "you can do this and make it your own" and "you're the best teacher for your kid" way.  It was very helpful for that as we find our way.  And I nearly immediately ordered 3 books she mentioned to use as curriculum and 2 of them just arrived and are still sitting on my desk besides me.  Anyways, not for it's main purpose but I still found this very useful.  4 Stars

The Matchmakers of Minnow Bay by Kelly Harms
A woman whose life is falling apart realize that the annulment from her Vegas wedding a decade earlier never went through so she is still married and needs to track down the guy to get this things settled.  She's an artist and things aren't going great for her personally so she takes off, stumbled into the small town where her husband lives, loves the town, makes some friends, finds her art again.  A weird happening at the end with her BFF from home where the friend says she did a bunch of crap to just make the protagonist jealous and then everything is automatically forgiven which I found to be a very strange action and just a weird way to resolve that story line. But I liked the rest of it. 3.25 Stars

Read with my boys
(My 11 year old & I are working on Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince)

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl
I found out when I read this with my 6 year old that I read it over nearly the exact same days 4 years earlier with my older son, finishing on Valentine's Day both times!  My younger son said he likes James and the Giant Peach better but he was especially engaged in the early part of waiting to see if Charlie would get a ticket.  I really enjoyed this book as a kid, read it many times, and it was fun to share with both my boys.  It's even weirder than I remembered.  3.5 Stars

Sarah, Plain and Tall by Patricia MacLachlan
Read this with my (at the time) 6 year old and he enjoyed it more than I expected which I'm pretty sure I said about when I read it to my older son ~4 years ago.  I have very clear memories of this book although maybe that was more the made for TV movie and the book is definitely shorter than I remembered but she manages to say a lot with a little. 4 Stars

Brian's Winter by Gary Paulsen
This was our second homeschool book and perfect for reading through February.  I had read the first two in the series, starting with Hatchet to my (older) son a few years ago but this one we read together and he really liked it, even asked to do it nearly first thing many homeschool mornings (that is NOT how he feels about our current book).  It was engaging for him and a good reading level.  3.5 Stars

Freckle Juice by Judy Blume
Another book I didn't realize how short it was until I reread it, with both my boys now.  My then 6 year old wanted to believe that the freckle juice potion wouldn't work but he's also young enough that he just wasn't sure and it was very cute watching him debate what was going to happen.  3.75 Stars

What have YOU been reading lately?

Thursday, March 6, 2025

Looking Back at February 2025

February was a month.  It was cold at times but got a little warmer towards the end of the month.  There's been a lot going on but also sometimes not.  I still try to get in all my reading, as you can see below, that means I need to read when and where I can. The boys had an extra long weekend mid-month which was nice.  February isn't my least favorite month (that's January) but it doesn't always have a lot going for it. 

Looking back:
1 year ago: Losing SAHM Status
2 years ago: Author Love: Katherine Center
3 years ago: {12} STEM {ish} Picture Books Series
4 years ago: The Molly Murphy Series by Rhys Bowen
5 years ago: Book Love: Flight Girls by Noelle Salazar
6 years ago: {11} Picture Books Featuring Food
7 years ago:
Book Love: How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids by Jancee Dunn
8 years ago:
Homemade Goo Gone
9 years ago: Photography part 3 - Back That Up
10 years ago:
Attacking the Problem Areas: Painting the Craft/Office Cupboard (finally)
11 years ago: Kool-Aid Cookies
12 years ago: Things I Like - February
13 years ago:
Intake



1) Reading during swim lessons.
2) Really weird hail, it sounded weird.
3) Reading at the dentist while both boys were back for their cleanings.
4) Lots of hearts!  We've been making Valentines for years and I hate wasting the edges of the paper from cutting hearts so I've been cutting lots of increasingly tinier hearts from the scraps.  For years.  So now we have a lot but also have lots of options for making Valentines!
5) Reading at home, I did do that too.
6) The bathroom, I rearrange these shelves with some regularity but a few of those pieces have been there for nearly 11 years!
7) Reading at swim lessons (that was the best part of swim lessons, a guaranteed 35 minutes to read in my week, also the pool room was very warm which was nice when outside was not).
8) Finally hung a planter my Dad made us for Christmas over a year ago! Plant is still alive!
9) Kool-Aid cookies which we ate much faster than we should have.
10) Also have a disco ball planter which got hung as well.  That plant is also still alive.
11) Reading at the orthodontist office. 
12) Finishing a puzzle I had been working on for awhile! 

Books finished: 15!
Miles ran: 2.0 and it was terrible
Currently watching: Matt & I have actually been watching movies!  Pretty much what we can find streaming.  For Valentine's weekend we rewatched Crazy Stupid Love where we sat through Hulu commercials because neither of us wanted to walk all the way down to the basement to get the DVD...(it's not that far)
Most read post this month: Things Saving my Winter and then DIY Strawberries & Cream Oatmeal
Sam's favorite song: I've stopped asking the boys this but Sam volunteered "If you are doing that survey where you want to know my favorite song...it's 'Everybody Wants to be a Cat'".  We recently watched The Aristocats.

March is a birthday for each of the boys, lent, a joint birthday party, making it over halfway through the semester, our second niece wedding of the year, and hopefully some warmer weather!

Thursday, February 27, 2025

Things I Like - February 2025

Homeschooling has been a big part of my life these last 2 months, since I started homeschooling our oldest in January.  Homeschooling is a bit different than it was when I was homeschooled, nearly 30 years ago, and the internet has been a great resource for many things (as well as a great distraction for my student).  Here's a few things that have been great for us.

I always enjoy hearing what works for other people and I like sharing things I like, it's part of the reason I have a blog.  I've been doing these monthly posts for 10 years and they also provide a nice little snapshot in my life at a moment in time! See more here!  Some affiliate links may be included!

1) Teachers Pay Teachers
I knew about this site because my sister who teaches kindergarten has been selling on it for quite awhile.  I do not need her kindergarten resources for my 6th grader but I have found nearly anything else I am looking for on here without putting out a ton of money.  I've bought World War II Europe maps, study guides for books we're reading together, a test for a book we read that I had chapter discussion questions for (going back to a book my Mom used for me!), etc.  Most items that I'm looking for are around $4-$7 which is a great value for not having to make a test for a book myself.  It's been fantastic.

2)  Geography Map Games
I think my son's junior high social studies teacher used these at school too but we've found them very useful too.  We focused on Northern & Eastern European geography when reading Number the Stars and are now working on the states.  I personally enjoy taking the states one and seeing how fast I can do it (69 seconds is my best at 100% accuracy, of course.  I want to get that under a minute).  There are a lot of different ones, apparently I don't know my National Park locations that well (at least of the ones I haven't been to).  

3) Word Search Puzzles
I make a word search with his spelling words every week and I use this one every single time, just typing in his spelling words and then it makes it for me.  I save as a pdf and print.  Takes less than 5 minutes and is free.  

4) Typing Club
As much as I begrudge so much work being done on computers at schools now, I do think typing correctly and well is a very important skill to have.  He works on Typing Club one or two days a week and, honestly, it wouldn't hurt me to practice on there either.  I did a good bit of Mavis Beacon 30 years ago and am decent at typing but could be better!

5) Bible Gateway
I have used Bible Gateway for years as a quick way to look up Bible verses in a variety of translations.  When I assign him Bible chapters to read he nearly always has Bible Gateway read it to him as he follows along in his paper Bible.  

6) Homeschool Pop
Bonus 6th pick this month.  I do not want to have to explain parts of speech and objects of prepositions and all of that.  I think I would just confuse us both (the number of times I google what part of speech a certain word is while I am grading his grammar worksheets without an answer key is...a lot).  This is always the first YouTube channel I check for instructional videos.  They don't have everything but they've had many we've found useful.  And my 6th grader says they aren't annoying so that's high praise.  

I'll probably have more to say about homeschooling when we are nearing the end of the semester, it's certainly was a rough start but things are going fairly smoothly now!