It's February, I've already checked a few things off my list but I feel a little lost in my monthly planning without having a finalized 26 in 2026 list so here we go! Organizing this a bit differently this year, see if it helps me get more done...
20 in 2020 | How I Did (85.75%)
21 in 2021 | How I Did (89.5%)
22 in 2022 | How I Did (86.4%)
23 in 2023 | How I Did (79.5%)
Year Long Projects
1) Order 7 photobooks (2025, Sam, Luke, Smokies, Philly, SB, summer vacation)
I did terribly on ordering photobooks last year (specifically, I did terribly on ordering vacation photobooks last year) so lots to catch up on this year. 2025 is nearly done, Luke's & Sam's current books both go through their March birthdays and I have each caught up to end of November so they aren't far off. It's the vacation ones I need to really work on. Both trips from last year are started...but barely...
2) Go on 10 Dates
I know myself and if I don't put this on my list I will be less likely to make them happen. A few, for sure, but regularly? I need them on the list (also, note to self, don't leave 3 for the last 2 weeks of December again.)
3) 4 new dates
And on that note...make 4 of them new. We've actually already done one (if we eat at a restaurant we've never had a date at before...I count it) and have ideas in mind for 2 of the 3 remaining!
4) Eat local each month
This often happens on dates but not always.
5) Go to Farmers Market 6 times
This is another one of "if I put it on the list I will do it". Our rhythm the last few years has been twice to the indoor market (winter/spring), twice to the outdoor market (summer/early fall) and twice when it moves back indoors (late fall/winter). This works. And Sam is nearly always game to go with me.
6) Get rid of 500 things
I honestly forgot this was on here until I just sat down to write it so I need to get back to making that something of a priority.
7) Host 6 cookouts
Again, if I don't put it down I will very likely be less motivated to do it. We need to be a little more proactive on not leaving all of these for the latter part of the cookout season.
Those are the ones that are spread over the bulk of the year, the rest I assigned a quarter to keep me on task!
1st quarter8) Finish our will
This should have been done...oh anytime in the nearly 13 years we've had kids but particularly in the 3 years since we started the process.
9) Sell 3 LEGO sets
Last year I finally sold a Millennium Falcon Lego set we meant to sell 2 years earlier. We had 3 more we had been storing to sell, in some cases for over 18 years and we decided now is finally the time to do so (they are all selling at at least double, if not triple what we paid). And I've already found boxes to ship each of the three! It's just getting the listings together and then trips to the post office!
10) Start using robot vacuum
If you read this post you may know this is a bit of a gimme but it did sit in my office for 6 weeks before we opened the box.
11) Catch up photographing art
I am GETTING these art books done, mainly because I don't feel like I can purge all the photographed art until the books are caught up. And I'd really like to not have it all piled up (somewhat hidden) in my office. So...breaking this into stages...
12) Upload guard videos to YouTube (if allowed)
I need this motivation to get these done. It's more than is worth typing out the whole story but I have a giant video file with all our color guard and marching band shows from high school (one performance of each show, not every single time we performed it). I've been meaning to share these for years (aiming for YouTube) ever since my old guard instructor asked a long time ago if anyone had digital copies of them. I need to see if I can break up the file I have and then share them.
2nd quarter
13) Catch up sorting Luke’s art
This is stage two...
14) Catch up sorting Sam’s art
And
stage three. It greatly helps me that the rate at which they are
making art has greatly slowed down from when they were younger.
15) Paint kitchen cabinets - lower
We've had paint samples on our kitchen cabinets for over 2 years. In my defense...right when Matt started school was not the time to be painting the kitchen cabinets, especially when I cannot do the sanding/striping myself (palm sanders are too much for my arthritis). But I have Matt on board (he specifically asked for a tool for Christmas that would make this project easier, or at least that's how he sold it to me) and I've accepted that maybe the hinges cannot easily be moved inside our nearly 100 year old cabinets.
16) Paint kitchen cabinets - upper
Yes, this is two different items because it'll happen at two different times. Also, I haven't picked a color for the uppers yet.
17) Replace kitchen cab hardware
Yes, this is more of the same related project but if this is what it's going to take to keep me motivated to get it done, then so be it.
18) Celebrate 20th anniversary
It's in the second quarter and plans are already underway but...it's a milestone worth getting a line on this list.
19) Remove scroll things from front railing
Our front railing have these scroll/curly things on them that have nothing to do with the structure of the railings. This has been on my mind for about 10 years, at least and I've caught the Christmas lights & garland for the railings on them too many times (although the rope lights I've been using for ~18 years have finally bit the dust and I don't know if they'll be replaced). It's an easy fix and should be a bit of an update.
20) Take boys to movie theater
This was fun to do with them last year and we want to do it again. It's in 2nd quarter because we're eyeing the Mandalorian movie after we watched the series with them.
3rd quarter
21) Dispose of/burn old diaries
Fall seems like a good time for a bonfire, right? I was a dedicated diary keeper from the age of 12 until Matt & I got married at 22 and in that decade I filled A LOT of composition books. I have decided I can let go of many of them. I think I'll still keep the ones from when Matt & I started dating (at 18) through when I stopped keeping them but the first 6 years, which is still a good chunk, can go. I don't really want to read my thoughts from, say, the age of 14. I'm sure I would cringe.
22) Luke’s 1st art book
I'm hoping breaking these up into smaller tasks with more immediate deadlines will help my motivation. I HOPE.
23) Sam’s art book
DITTO TO THE ABOVE.
24) Purge old art
EVEN THOUGH I have backed up all the pictures I've taken of art, just like I back-up all the pictures I take, I am still paranoid about disposing of any art until the books are caught up. I think in case I want to reference something to try to place it better??? I don't know but I've had these PILES of art somewhat out of the way in my office for 3 or 4 years and I'm ready to have that space back. I would go through and keep a few special/favorite pieces but then, ideally, burn the rest (I'm going to need a bigger fire area than our little solo stove).
25) Side yard project
I broke up the art books into many projects but this one, which will probably take more time than all those steps put together, just gets one lonely spot. Long story very short, we want to expand our fenced in backyard to include our side yard. We've been talking through options and this will likely be many months long but we are both excited about it. There are parts (plant moving) that should take place in the spring but I could very easily see this not wrapping up until late summer/early fall.
4th quarter
26) Figure out the piano
I have wanted a piano for many years and I am determined to make that happen. We've been doing a lot of dreaming/planning for changing things around in the house and part of that is making room for my piano. I took lessons through most of grade school and again for a semester in college. I've tinkled around a few times on my parents' or sisters' pianos since but I'd love to get back to playing again but it's going to take some figuring out where it could go (at one point, my niece who is now a teenager but was a preschooler at the time, suggested we just put a piano in front of our front door and then move it every time someone came over. I mean...that IS an idea...). It's one of those projects I put on a back burner in my mind and then let my subconscious figure it out (this has been successful for me, many times!).
Will this be the year I get 100%??? I always go into these thinking I will...and then I never do but maybe, maybe THIS is the year. Maybe.

























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