Thursday, June 5, 2025

Looking Back at May 2025

May is sneaky crazy.  I always expect it to be crazy but then the crazy slowly ramps up in a way that I don't realize how crazy that last 2ish weeks of school is until we're in June, school is done, and we have a lot less demands on our time.  Then I realize how insane May was, even if this May was calmer than the year before (no sports for one thing!).  We had the end of school, Mother's Day, our anniversary, and even got our trip to Kings Island in there.  Really feels like summer and I'm enjoying pretty much anytime we get to be home for any stretch of time! 

Looking back:
1 year ago: My First SAHP(erson) Year (who knew that would nearly be a one and done thing??)
2 years ago: Day in the Life #14
3 years ago: Sewing a Pennant (this is hanging up right now!)
4 years ago: {13} Fun Romance(ish) Books
5 years ago: Our Quarantine Homeschool Process
6 years ago: {5} Surprising Benefits to the pre-8am School Run
7 years ago:
Reflections on Mothers' Day
8 years ago:
Balancing Work and Play
9 years ago: Painting my Drawers
10 years ago:
A New Hope (Chest)
11 years ago: Dollar Decorating: Turning Toy Dinosaurs into Decor (these have been moved to the sandbox but we still have them!  And the paint has largely held up!)
13 years ago: Big Day in London - 1

 

1) Sno-cones at the Farmers Market!  We did this the first nice Saturday of what felt like the year and it was lovely.
2) Allium always surprise me in the spring, they are fun.
3) We did a glo run at the zoo which got interrupted with a severe thunderstorm warning but then we got to go back through the lights which was a bit chaotic (so busy) but fun.
4) Thirsty Thursday to use Sam's free reading program ticket the night before the last day of school.  It was so cold I was wearing my winter coat.
5) Celebrating the last day of school with a bike ride downtown!
6) Kings Island!  I was a bit anxious about this trip in the week leading up to it since the weather forecast went from perfect to wet almost as soon as I bought our tickets.  But the rain wasn't terrible and the emptiest park we've ever had during the day so we got in a lot!
7) Jackets worn all day but at least we weren't hot!
8) Stopped at the Wright-Dunbar Museum in Dayton on the way home, the Ohio counterpart of the Wright Brothers Memorial site we stopped at in the Outer Banks last summer.  Boys got another junior ranger badge!
9) Margaritas, got them in in May!
10) Planted flowers in the playhouse flower box, they are still alive as of this writing!
11) Within a week we went to the Wright Bros museum and then the Wapak Neil Armstrong Museum, and both places mentioned the accomplishments of the other!  This is the actual Gemini 8 capsule. 
12) A statue of Neil Armstong's actual space suit from the moon (you could touch it, nobody gets to touch the original).  
 

Books finished: 11 
Miles ran: 25.2 
Currently watching: Matt & I have started season 4 of Welcome to Wrexham which is enjoyable.
Most read post this month: Kool-Aid Cookies and then Opening & Closing Ceremonies.
 
June is such a slow down after May, no school, a few short trips planned.  Just enjoying the boys being off and I get to just be Mom instead of Mom & teacher!

Wednesday, May 14, 2025

Reading Recap - April 2025

Not much time for blogging lately with homeschool BUT there has been time for reading.  Which really helps in many ways! 

I'm very active on Goodreads here, somewhat active on Instagram here, and linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy!      

Out of the Woods by Hannah Bonam-Young
I purposely saved this book to start at the end of March so I could finish it on our Smoky Mountains trip, it felt like the appropriate setting.  I was NOT going on a rough backpacking trip (I read this largely from a real bed in a real cabin with a full bathroom) and this did not convince me that's something I'd want to do anytime soon but made an interesting enough setting although maybe not the most romantic one for a romance. 3.25 Stars

The Strange Case of Jane O. by Karen Thompson Walker
I flew through this much quicker than I expected, finishing it next to the (heated) pool while my boys swam in 70° while I was in jeans and a sweatshirt.  Compelling story of forgetting whole parts of a life, how much could be from a legit medical reason.  There were various case studies mentioned that I'm assuming were real about people who also forgot huge parts of their lives which made the story feel extra real.  Under 300 pages too which helps with the flying through it.  3.5 Stars

Promise Me Sunshine by Cara Bastone
The first of 2 books I read this month about coming back to life after grieving the loss of a loved one.  In this case it was a best friend and she just can't cope with much more than occasionally nannying.  Which then leads to her charge and a grumpy (young) uncle working their way into her heart.  NYC set which I appreciate.  I understand that grief is a real thing but it also doesn't make for the most light hearted read. 3.25 Stars

Sauntering Through Scripture: A Book of Reflections by Genevieve Glen, O.S.B.
I read this book in the adoration chapel throughout Lent.  Maybe would have been a little better to just take one or two little stories a day instead of reading it in a few ~25 minute chunks but it was a nice little read.  3.75 Stars

Silent as the Grave by Rhys Bowen and Clare Broyles
This is the very rare book that I picked up off the library shelf and dove into the same day.  I didn't know there was a new Molly Murphy book and I had just finished my previous book.  I always enjoy Molly as a character and a little bit of history about the beginning of movies was also a compelling setting.  3.75 Stars

The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Caused an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt
This was a fantastic and harrowing read that I think every parent with kids between about 4 and 18 should read.  Convinced me even further to keep our kids off the internet, no personal devices, and just living their childhood for as long as possible.  Backed up by many facts and studies about how terrible the ability to constantly be on the internet has been for kids.  And also reiterated how important it is for kids to just be kids away from screens, organized sports, and overbearing rules.  Read it if you have kids in that age range.  5 Stars

Say You'll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez
This may be my favorite of her books so far, I get annoyed often when love interests are kept apart for stupid story reason and not reasons that make sense in real life (or from just not communicating...).  This couple seems to have more legit reasons for why their romance was being stalled and I also flew through this pretty fast.  Would have been great for summer but alas, my hold came in much earlier. 3.75 Stars

Finlay Donovan Digs Her Own Grave by Elle Cosimano
This is ALSO my favorite of this series!  I got confused in previous books about the mob and who all the bad guys were and who was on whose side.  All that seems to be in the past now and there's a new set of mysteries and mysterious deaths to figure out.  A bit far fetched at times but makes my life seem easier in comparison (I'm not needing to hide bodies...). 3.5 Stars

Ordinary Time: Lessons Learned by Staying Put by Annie B. Jones
I've been listening to Annie's podcast for nearly 9 years (I remember which painting project I was doing while I binged episodes) and we've made 2 stops to her darling bookstore in rural South Georgia on our way to/from Florida.  I preordered her first book (from her bookstore) last August and was so excited when it showed up.  I was predisposed to like this book but then I LOVED it.  I flew through this too, finishing it the day after it released, I believe (my copy did show up on my front steps the day before release day).  I have also stayed in nearly the same spot most of my life (besides college).  I regularly drive past the hospital where I was born and my kids have attended the same school as my husband.  I know about staying put.  I related to many of her feelings of finding wonder and similarly about finding my husband at a young age.  I just loved it and definitely teared up a few times.  5 Stars

Iona Iverson's Rules for Commuting by Clare Pooley
Interesting cast of characters whose only thing in common is that they frequently all take the same London Tube train car on their daily commute.  It flashes between different characters perspectives and I enjoyed the detail of the different names they have for their follow passengers they recognize seeing regularly.  Due to some interference, they end up becoming more than just people who accidentally commute together and impact each other's lives in surprising ways. 3.5 Stars

Secrets of Adulthood: Simple Truths for Our Complex Lives by Gretchen Rubin
Very quick read about various truths Gretchen Rubin has collected and written over the last few decades or so.  I appreciate much of what she has to say about happiness and making the most of her life (I think about her "pick the bigger life" quite frequently) and there were many good nuggets in here. 4 Stars

Passion Project by London Sperry
The second NYC set, dealing with grief romance I read this month.  In this case, her first love died and she has a difficult time moving on.  A bad date set-up goes terribly wrong but then leads to a case of trying to find her passion by various adventures around the city with her date set-up.  Similar a bit to not just Promise Me Sunshine (above) but also Summer FridaysI gave both of this month's grief books 3 stars but I think I liked this one slightly more. 3.5 Stars

Read with Sam or Luke
Caleb's Story by Patricia MacLachlan
A Sarah, Plain and Tall book that I read to Sam (age: 7).  He was thrown at the beginning with the narrator switch and the time jump (~5 years) but then settled into it.  I think we're going to finish out this series soon but the first two books (Sarah, Plain and Tall and Skylark) are the best of the series. 3.5 Stars

Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling
After Order of the Phoenix took us 7 months to get through, we cruised through this one in just 3!  Having the audio book from the library really helped because Luke & I could listen to it anytime we were in the car just the two of us (which is a bit of time with him being homeschooled).  This book has a few parts I was just dreading getting through again (the train carriage at the beginning, the cave, the astronomy tower) but we did it.  There's a lot of back information packed into this one.  And he loved it (and has almost finished relistening to the playaway of it since we finished).  

What have YOU been reading lately?

Friday, May 9, 2025

Looking Back at April 2025

We started this month in Tennessee experiencing what felt like an early spring since it was cold and terrible at home while we were away.  Then we got home and spring eventually showed up here too!  April was that trip, Easter, and embracing warmer weather which is wonderful but always brings with it a slew of projects as well.  

Looking back:
1 year ago: {18} Dragon Picture Books (I miss doing these lists, one of the many causalities of starting homeschooling...)
2 years ago: Some Royally Good Reads
3 years ago: Travel: 40 Hours in Saint Louis
4 years ago: Book Love: Our Darkest Night by Jennifer Robson
5 years ago: Painting the FINAL Kitchen Cupboard (my pandemic Good Friday)
6 years ago: Cloth Diapering, Again
7 years ago:
A Star Wars/Lego/Superhero Party
8 years ago:
Pairing Activities 
9 years ago: Dilemma: My Craft Area (the solution we came up with for this is pretty much how it still is today)
10 years ago:
Getting My Sew On
11 years ago: Things I Like - April (sharing this because I wore #1 this week and am using #3 regularly right now!)
12 years ago: NYC
13 years ago:
Frustrating but then Uplifting

 

1) The flowers weren't quite the color of the my hair but it was sorta close???
2) Souvenir shopping in Tennessee and they were using depression glass for display that was the exact same style of some of what we just received from my aunt's house/formerly my Grandma's set.  It was a fun find out in the "wild".  (We have similar bowls but not that exact size.)
3) The sunset view from our Pigeon Forge cabin, beautiful.
4) This is 2/2 on bad/no views from the top of Clingman's Dome for Matt.  It was comically bad this time.
5) Part of the Appalachian Trail and about as most of it as I ever plan to hike (and that was about 20 feet).
6) View from a cabin in Cades Cove.  I wouldn't want to live primitively like that but dang, some nice views.
7) Stopped at Buc-ees coming home where we spent 45 minutes at what is really a gas station.  Fridays in Lent aren't the best time to try to get food on the road.
8) Hyacinth in our backyard, these are usually early to bloom and smell amazing.
9) Continuing my posting of reading in different places, at the ortho office, again (we are there what feels like a lot).
10) SPRING!  On the walk home form school.
11) I forgot I planted tulips last fall until they bloomed this year!  Not counting on them lasting long before squirrels dig them up like they did my previous ones.
12) Dying eggs at home!  The boys actually spent almost 2 hours on this!
13) Easter bike ride downtown where, with late Easter, tulips were out!
14) Easter bike ride and our first bike ride of the year!
15) This is not our backyard but I forget where I came across whatever this flowering thing is.  I love and appreciate all the green we have right now but I really do love those ~2 weeks where everything is flowering and amazing.
16) Red buds being amazing.  Planting this was such a good random decision. 

Books finished: 14!
Miles ran: 16.60, better than last April!
Currently watching: Matt & I have started rewatching Brooklyn 99 (starting with season 3 which is where Netflix starts) because it's funny and we liked it the first time.  On my own I've started watching Nobody Wants This, about 1 episode a week while I fold laundry on Sunday night.  So it's going to take me a little time.
Most read post this month: March Reading Recap followed by Kool-Aid Cookies (my 6th most popular post of all blog time)

May is Mothers Day, our anniversary, and THE END OF SCHOOL which is nearly all consuming.  Even with NO sports right now (don't miss it) and only one kid in "regular" school (but one whom I am room parent for his class), it's probably less chaotic than it could be but still with some level of crazy.  May just has a different energy, wrapping up a school year and all the anticipation of summer.  It actually feels like a little bit of a sweet spot right now because I LOVE that summer anticipation but we also don't have to feel like we've wasted any of it yet.  Plus it's the point of the school year where NOBODY CARES anymore, learning is barely happening and it's kinda just soaking up all the hard work we've put in over the last 170 school days (to be clear, my homeschool kid is still doing assignments).  Just trying to enjoy the good parts of May and not let the harder parts weigh me down!

Tuesday, April 15, 2025

Reading Recap - March 2025

March was busy for us with birthdays for both our sons', their big joint birthday party for grand & godparents, a family wedding, the culmination of my months of work on our school's dinner/auction committee (actually having the dinner/auction), and leaving for a trip.  Just a lot going on and my reading definitely reflected that, not as much time to read as I would have liked.  Trying to soak up a little more calm in April before MAY (although April has already brought another family wedding and Easter soon).  

I'm very active on Goodreads here, somewhat active on Instagram here, and linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy!    

Back After This by Linda Holmes
I have liked all 3 of Linda Holmes' books, including this one.  It's about making podcasts which was fun to get a bit of the behind of the scenes of, even a fake one.  Cecily is asked to do a dating podcast where she's set up on 20 blind dates by this influencer and then give her honest things.  Some things about the whole influencer culture in there too.  It had some real romance, outside of the 20 dates, and was enjoyable to pick-up.  3.25 Stars

Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want by Courtney Carver
I did not find as much to appreciate in here as I did in Courtney Carver's book, The 333 Project but it was still mostly a good read about being gentle on yourself and your expectations for yourself and your life.  Most people could probably do with some stress reducing and appreciated some of what she said while I was reading it but remember none of it a month later. 3 Stars

Lucy Checks In by Dee Ernst
This had been on my TBR for awhile, it mostly didn't get cut because it was under 300 pages (shorter books are less likely to get cut).  A woman moves to France somewhat in disgrace from her NYC hotel job (she didn't do anything wrong but was affiliated with someone who did) and gets a job completely renovating a hotel in a small French town with a motley crew of helpers.  She's older, in her 50s at least, maybe early 60s and even though I am still firmly in my early 40s, it was nice reading about someone older than 30 restarting her life in a way and making a change.  It was enjoyable but not something I rushed to pickup each time. 3.25 Stars

Adrift: The Curious Tale of the Lego Lost at Sea by Tracey Williams
This is a book that I requested that the library purchase which they finally did.  It's mostly about a cargo boat that capsized off the coast of England in the 90s (I think) and among the items on board were many many pieces for Lego sets, largely ocean themed.  They were headed from Europe to the US where they would be put into sets.  These pieces still continue to wash up on the shores of mostly England but also other places.  It's about the tragedy of waste in the ocean but also about the magic people would feel when they found the washed up pieces, how they are still being found (although not as much), the science of which pieces were more likely to be found, the damage they sustained from years or decades of floating, and about ocean litter in general.  It was a fairly quick read but very interesting.  4.25 Stars

We Are the Brennans by Tracey Lange
I specifically picked this to read around St. Patrick's Day, solely because of the clovers on the cover.  Turns out that was good picking because it was about an Irish-American family in the bar business and their lost sheep of sorts daughter who comes back home after a time in LA.  There's some romance but mostly a family story, very much in the vein of Marrying the Ketchups.  I enjoyed it. 3.5 Stars

The Art of Danish Living: How the World's Happiest People Find Joy at Work by Meik Wiking
I am still a bit perplexed by this title because before the subtitle there is no hint about this being about work.  And it seemed like it should be from a series about books, each titled "The Art of Danish Living" and then about different aspects of life.  Or called the "Art of Danish Working".  I don't know, the title doesn't make sense to me.  The book was fine.  I've not worked full time in a dozen years (almost to the day!) and so I'm not really working to change my work up to be more satisfying or more Danish.  But it was still interesting in just a anthropologist way.  3.5 Stars

The Ladies Rewrite the Rules by Suzanne Allain
This is regency set which isn't a time period I am super interested in, I never watched Bridgerton, which seems to be where that interest started for many.  But I was mainly drawn to this because a main character is named Diana AND it was under 300 pages.  The "ladies" in the title are all women who, somehow, have some money which wasn't super common in this time, mainly because they had rich husband who died.  The rules they are rewriting pertain to how they are supposed to behave (such as at a ball if you refuse one man's invitation to dance you'd have to refuse all the following ones, you couldn't say no to just one gentlemen) and more taking matters into their own hands.  It was entertaining enough but also glad it wasn't much longer.  3 Stars

When Doing it All is Undoing You: Meeting God in Your Unmet Expectations by Alyssa Joy Bethke
There were parts of this I could relate to more than others but I've read many books by Alyssa Bethke and always appreciate her take.  Probably a book that would be best read slowly, over a week or two instead of trying to rush through for a library due date.  3.75 Stars

Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do by Eve Rodsky
This is a book I had on my list for quite awhile but was waiting to read until Matt was out of school since there wasn't much household work we could redistribute while he was in school.  So I finally got to it and I certainly had some issues with her plan (she'd talk about how you might be in charge of paying bills but don't worry about making sure there are stamps to mail those bills because that falls to someone else!  As if there were 80+ people in a household to split tasks between instead of just a couple) but I appreciated the overall idea.  I would have liked more about how to evenly split when one parent mostly stays home and one parent works full time other than "figure out something that feels fair to both".  It certainly sparked some discussions with Matt and I certainly felt less alone in some of my feelings after reading it.  But this is probably more applicable to households where both parents work full or nearly full-time. 3.5 Stars

Read with Luke or Sam
Skylark by Patricia MacLachlan

The second book in the Sarah, Plain and Tall series.  I have fond memories of reading these as a kid but didn't remember how short they were until I reread them with the boys (also fond memories of the tv movie which I should try to find).  Both boys have gotten more into these books than I expected and they are so well written, telling about how hard life could be on the plains.  Educational about that time in history but also engaging.  I think I got through the 4th book with Luke, want to finish all 5 with Sam. 4 Stars

The Worried Wombat by Amelia Cobb
We will never finish the Zoe Rescue Zoo books, or at least it feels that way, since we have to buy them since the library won't and they also won't do an interlibrary loan for them.  We've been reading these on and off for a year and a half and Sam still wants to give every single one 5 stars.  We've read around 25 of them at this point.  3.5 Stars

The Door in the Wall by Marguerite de Angeli 
Our 3rd homeschool lit book with Luke (6th grade).  He did not like this one.  I thought we could breeze through it because it's relatively short number of pages BUT there is A LOT of text on each page and the old English way some characters spoke slowed us down.  I think there is definitely some good lessons here and it was a nice introduction to the medieval time period but the language made it harder, as accurate as it might have been. (I apparently read this in homeschool too but I remembered nearly nothing about it).  3.5 Stars

What have YOU been reading lately?

Wednesday, April 9, 2025

Looking Back at March 2025

March was busier than I expected with birthdays for both boys, their big party, our committee work culminating in the dinner auction we had been working on for 6 months, a family wedding, and heading out for spring break.  Every week it felt like I could only handle what I needed to for that week, very little looking ahead happened.  But now, I think?, April is looking a little calmer! We'll see if that holds true. 

Looking back:
1 year ago: Hobbies: Puzzles
2 years ago: Non-Parenting Books That Made Me Rethink Parenting
3 years ago: Simplifying Allowances
4 years ago: The Spring Switch (I still do this, pretty much exactly like I outline here, on March 1st every year)
5 years ago: Corona Quarantine - week #2 (so glad I documented this time!)
6 years ago: Dingle (still one of our favorite places we've ever visited)
7 years ago:
Things That Makes Me Feel Like Me (fresh off getting Sam!)
8 years ago:
Chairs With History
9 years ago: A Major Improvement to our Pantry (Cupboard) - still SO GLAD I painted all of these.
10 years ago:
Covering Books with Fabric
11 years ago: Top Five...places I want to visit (international) - I've since been to...zero of these.  But would still like to someday!
12 years ago: Making room for baby & some other stuff (this is one of my posts that I randomly think about the most, mainly because Luke was already born but we didn't know it yet.)
13 years ago:
Paperwork is In

 

1) Donut at work, there are frequently donuts which helps my mood.
2) Typical homeschool view!
3) Fantastic Sunday morning brunching with my family.
4) I didn't intend for this to be so breakfast food heavy but donut when setting up for our dinner/auction...
5) Which was the SAME DAY as a niece's wedding.  I made it to parts of both but was also exhausted by the end of the day (which was also 11pm...)
6) Making compost cookies!  I usually just make these once a year!
7) Solid cookie spread for the double birthday party.  I'm not a big cake person and this requires pretty much no dishes to serve and eat.
8) A miniature highland cow on a field trip with Sam's class (my Dad drove the bus!).  It was adorable.
9) Putt-Putt arcade for Luke's birthday! 
10) Skee-Ball is the BEST arcade game even though I am not great at it.
11) The start of spring here...
12) But then in Tennessee where it really was spring!  It was wonderful!
13) There is a Diana butterfly in the Sugarland Visitor's Center of the Smoky Mountains NP.  An presumably around the park but we've never seen one.
14) Not a great view, a lot of rain this day.
15) Flowering bush of some sort at the KOA!
16) Wonderful view from our cabin, even without leaves on all the trees.

Books finished: 12
Miles ran: 3.1 and that was over 2 runs...
Currently watching: Nothing!  We've had such busy weekends with weddings and traveling and birthday party that it's been awhile since we've watched something AND a really long time since Matt & I were watching a show or something consistently. 
Most read post this month: Reading Recap - February 2025 and then Kool-Aid Cookies (I have some of these in my cookie jar right now)

April has already had most of spring break and a nephew wedding and we are looking forward to Easter.  Hopefully just spring weather, flowers, and getting caught up on life after a busy March and cold winter!